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Slowing Down to the Speed of Love

Best-selling author Joseph Bailey shows how to slow down and make time for the love that we want. His approach, based on principles of Health Realization that were espoused in his and Richard Carlson's international bestseller Slowing Down to the Speed of Life, can be applied to solving problems that almost every couple encounters.

With the help of true stories from his own relationship and those of couples he has counseled, Bailey offers poignant lessons on how to see our partners anew and find the healthy self within that is capable of true love, forgiveness, and deep, satisfying intimacy. He explains how to nurture the seed of timeless love ­­versus time-bound love ­­that exists in all of us and offers a positive, commonsense model for finding and maintaining health relationships.

Secret 3: Listening Deeply

Secret 4: Talk from the Heart

Secret 6: Conflict is an Opportunity for Personal Transformation

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The Speed Trap: How to Avoid the Frenzy of the Fast Lane

Between work, play, family, and friends, most of us feel like we're speeding along at 100 miles an hour. Our lives are full, yet we don't feel fulfilled. One solution is to slam on the brakes and adopt a radically simpler lifestyle. But, as psychologist Joe Bailey demonstrates in this essential guide, you don't have to give up everything to slow down your life. In over thirty-five captivating, instructive stories, Bailey shows just how easy it is to transform your way of thinking -- and wave good-bye to aggravating bosses, rocky relationships, stress induced illnesses, and other symptoms of life in the fast lane. You'll discover how to:

Enjoy each moment and stop worrying about the past or the future
Gain insight by trusting your instincts
Increase your productivity and achieve success without stress
Disregard the negative emotions of people around you
Attain a deep-rooted sense of fulfillment and inner contentment

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Secret 5: The Art of Forgiveness

Secret 2: The Speed of Love is the Moment

Slowing Down to the Speed of Love Audio Series

Based on his best-selling book Slowing Down to the Speed of Love, Joe Bailey breaks down the secrets to lasting and growing intimacy. We are all capable of eternal love, and these 6 Secrets are the source of intimacy and evolving relationships.

Secret 1: Happiness is Within - No one can give it to you or take it away.
Secret 2: The Speed of Love is the Moment - Presence is the key to intimacy.
Secret 3: Listening Deeply - Listening from the heart allows us to hear the essence of another's message.
Secret 4: Talk from the Heart - Let your wisdom, not your head guide you.
Secret 5: The Art of Forgiveness - Learn to drop the past and get a fresh start.
Secret 6: Conflict is an Opportunity for Personal Transformation - Life is a mirror of our thinking.

Available as individual secrets for $6 each or as a complete series for $30.

Secret 1: Happiness is Within

The Serenity Principle

This challenge to the paradigms of addiction and recovery theory shows those in recovery how to tap their own source of positive energy in a new approach to the search for serenity-a quest long recognized as the key to recovery.

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Slowing Down To The Speed Of Life

Newly revised and updated to address the increased stress of our modern times, Slowing Down to the Speed of Life by bestselling author Richard Carlson (Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff…and It’s All Small Stuff and Don’t Get Scrooged) and Joseph Bailey is the classic guide to creating a more peaceful, simpler life from the inside out. With practical and easy exercises to help you slow down your mind and focus on the present moment, Slowing Down to the Speed of Life, in the words of Dan Millman, bestselling author of Way of the Peaceful Warrior, is “a life-enhancing book with insightful principles for peaceful and productive living at work and at home.” 

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The Principles of Transformation in Recovery

Recovery has been an elusive mystery to millions of alcoholics and addicts of all kinds. Yet, some seem to be graced with a transformational experience that reveals the miracle of recovery and freedom from the pain of addiction. This three part DVD series reveals the process of transformation in recovery, the principles that explain the mystery of how it occurs and the understanding by which it can be transmitted to another. 

Topics include:

  • The Process of Transformation
  • The Health of the Helper
  • The Vertical Dimension of Recovery
  • The Power of Deep Listening
  • The 3 Principles of Human Experience
  • Feelings: Our Inner Guidance System

Available for $79.95


Fearproof Your Life: How to Thrive in a World Addicted to Fear

Worry, anxiety, dread, obsession, where do they come from? Throughout time, humankind has sought peace and safety by trying to out-guess the unknown. We have tried to anticipate and prepare for the unexpected, the imagined. The apparitions of our minds. Our efforts to control the unknown and thus keep ourselves safe have led to a collective as well as a personal sensation of fear. Individually and as a society, we have become addicted to fear.
The process of becoming your true Self is transformational in nature, FEARPROOF will guide in discovering who you truly are and show you how to immunize yourself from your personal fears and the fears of others as well.

 "I like this book because it provides me with physical as well as mental tools for releasing fear. It also contains fascinating methods for measuring progress. Most importantly, by guiding me how to access my deeper Self, it ushers me into the Place where I am already free of fear. In many ways, Fearproof Your Life is a complete spiritual path."   --Hugh Prather